Wednesday, December 7, 2011

Well, so much for that break.

I posted recently about how I was looking forward to being back at 40 hours a week for a month or so, but recent events leaving me not so sure I can get the break I've needed. I was put on a small hospital project to do some conceptual and clinical design on the front end, but then another project kicked loose with an extremely accelerated schedule for conceptual design/early SD. Last week, we were given the go-ahead on conceptual design for two more small hospitals. Guess who's slated to work on at least one of them?

I mentioned to DA partner Bosley, with whom I'll be working again, that I have over a week of vacation time that I'm "supposed" to burn off by the end of the year, to which he replied, "Oh, don't worry, I'll make sure Accounting carries it over." Um...that was meant to tell you that I was really hoping to not be in the office for a week, ummm.... [shifting uncomfortably from one foot to the other] I really was hoping for that last week off so that I could take that time to do a few things around the house, plus just unwind during the shortest days of the year. It seems so odd that as architects we design for our buildings to respond to the climate and the seasons, but we don't allow our own bodies to do so. It's been a helluva year with Gestalt's Uber MOB, and I needed a month of just doing what I had to and going home so that I could start right back at it, 90 mph, in early January as I knew I would have to do. But alas, early January has leaked into early December.

If you're wanting to comment on this post with something along the lines of "well, many people would love to be as busy as you right now, count your blessings, those are the breaks with moving up the ladder like you've been this year," you can save it for someone who isn't burned the fuck out and exhausted from having lots of responsibility and little to no authority. I need to put my oxygen mask on before assisting others. I need a little rest now and again, and spending one week out of 52 in Yellowstone isn't going to cut it. And regardless of whether I'm an intern or an architect or a project manager or a partner, everyone needs a break now and again. There's nothing wrong with admitting one's humanity and occasional need for rest. The earth rests, and sometimes humans need to rest too.

5 comments:

Miss Kitty said...

...you can save it for someone who isn't burned the fuck out and exhausted from having lots of responsibility and little to no authority. I need to put my oxygen mask on before assisting others.

Hell, yes.

ms. kitty said...

You do sound overloaded, Pixie, and it's a hard time of year anyhow anywhere. I hope you can convince them to give you that week off; you have it coming, after all.

Anonymous said...

I just read your blog post and I'm sorry you're so busy these days. I hope you get the well deserved time off over the holidays. Speaking of, what are your plans on coming out this year?

STL Fan

Scarlett said...

yo yo yo
burn out is a beeyotch.

i think you should run away from home, then they can't find you. Say, perhaps to I dunno VEGAS?

:)

hang in there chickadee. sending you hugs, and smooches from the behemoth kitteh and co.

Anonymous said...

Lots of responsibility and little to no authority is the WORST! It's like having a canvas bag put over your head and being beaten with a stick. Repeatedly.

See if you can use the fact they need your skills to get a bit more of that authority/ autonomy!